Tuesday, September 8, 2026

Man or Bear

Last year I kept seeing posts on Instagram and hearing about a debate. It went like this: would you rather (as a woman) be alone in the forest with a man or a bear? When posed to a man it would be: would you rather your daughter be alone in the woods with a man or a bear? Not once did anyone online, that I read/saw, or the people I asked in real life, choose a man. 


These were some of the comments on posts about the debate that left me shuddering:

• If I survive the bear attack, I won't have to see the bear at family reunions.
• The worst thing the bear can do is kill me.
• The bear sees me as a human being.
• After what those men did to that monitor lizard, the bears are not safe with men either.
• The bear doesn't get enjoyment out of it.
• The bear didn't pretend to be my friend for months beforehand.
• No one will say that I liked the bear attack.
• No one will talk about the bear's "bright future".
• If the bear and the man both wanna hurt me and I scream loud enough, there's a better chance that the bear will actually run away.
A bear wouldn't film it and send it to all of his friends.
• The men getting angry at this don't realise that there are fates worse than death.

Monday, September 7, 2026

Growing

Look at this GORGEOUS artwork by Barbara's lovely daughter Sophie. I am beyond impressed and wish I could see it in real life...




(Here's a link to Sophie's Instagram account.)

Sunday, September 6, 2026

Fuselage Sorrows

Love Is All I Have - LP
From the Start - Laufey ¹ 
Waste Your Heart - Magnus Ferrell
Let 'Em In - Wings
I Knew It, I Knew You - Taylor Swift 
I Was Made For Lovin' You (orchestral version) - Yungblud
Maybe Not Tonight - Glen Hansard *
Devil Always Made Me Think Twice - Chris Stapleton
Wuthering Heights - Kate Bush
All I Wanted - Paramore ¹ 
Suffocation - Against Me!
The Wolf Is Getting Married - Sinéad O'Connor
Save Me - Kelly Osbourne
Don't Save Me - HAIM
Spirits in the Material World - The Police
Holding On - The War On Drugs
Tonight Is Forever - Liza Minnelli
Goodbye - Ozzy Osbourne
East Coasting - Charles Mingus
Hanging Out to Dry - Florence Road
Jane! - The Long Faces ¹ 
Hold Tight! - Dave Dee, Dozy, Beaky, Mick & Tich
Working Man - Rush ¹ 
Midnight Rider - The Allman Brothers
Easy - Troye Sivan
Joker and the Thief - Wolfmother ¹ 
The Tear of the Year - Jackie Wilson
Il sole sorge ancora - MOTS
Dear Heart - Thin Lizzy ¹ 
De-Luxe - Lush
Way Down We Go - KALEO
The Payoff - Father John Misty 
Conscious Uncoupling - Pool Kids
Blue Blood - Foals
Dagger Through The Heart - Dolly Parton
Cigarettes in the Theatre - Two Door CInema Club
BDR - Chelsea Peretti w/ Kathleen Hanna, Ad-Rock, & Money Mark 
She Bangs the Drums - The Stone Roses
June - IDLES
Diane - Hüsker Dü
Fighter - Imanbek & LP
A Fragile Thing - The Cure
And I Love Her - Kurt Cobain ¹ 

 - Summer 2026 Playlist

*In mid June I was in a shop in Phoenixville and they had this song playing. I Shazamed it, chatted with the shop-lady about how gorgeous Glen Hansard's voice is and added it to my playlist. A month later he would be gone. 
¹ - These songs were introduced to me through Jackson.

Saturday, September 5, 2026

Come See Me In The Good Light

When Andrea Gibson was ill and eventually passed, I kept seeing their name on Instagram and made a mental note to check them out. I finally have Apple TV for the month and watched the documentary Come See Me In The Good Light. I was so impressed with Andrea's resilience and especially the love they had with their wife, Megan Falley. Can't wait to check out both Andrea and Megan's writing!

Friday, September 4, 2026

The Dix by Coldwell

I'm going through all the photos stored on my Mac and it is seemingly endless. So many duplicates and screenshots. However, I loved coming across this sketch from June 2016 that she did of Daryl Dixon. So good!!

Thursday, September 3, 2026

Barbara and Co. in Firenze

It took getting this postcard from Barbara to remind me to post the photos she Signaled me back in May when she and her lovely family traveled to Italy for a wedding.


P.S. No Airbnb any more - Sophie has moved in!
Hello Lisa!
We spent a week in Tuscany back in May - for the wedding of my niece and her Brazilian husband. It was absolutely fabulous! No complaints about our Summer; all is going well. Hope you're good too!
Barbara



Barbara and her charming partner, Kevin.

Wednesday, September 2, 2026

Draw Something

Back in 2016 I used to love to play Draw Something on my phone with pals. If memory serves you were also able to play with strangers and this drawing for the clue lipstick was so fabulous that I had to snap a screenshot.