Tuesday, September 30, 2025

September 2025 Books

The Joy of Visualization by Valerie Wells - I believe I came across this a few years back when I was at Baldwin’s Book Barn. I finally decided to read one visualisation a day. There were a few that were a bit goofy, even for me, but others left me dog-earing the page so that I could return and work on them again and again.

 Super Sleuth ¹ by David Walliams - Oh my gosh, this story was so good!! I started it one day while out for a drive but I couldn't seem to focus. Then I put it on while filling out Halloween cards and got sucked in to the story, big-time. The narration was sensational and more than once I found myself LOLing and hitting the back button so I could laugh all over again. I'm so glad that I purchased it because I absolutely will be listening to this with Bailey and hopefully Lucy.

* 101 Essays That Will Change the Way You Think by Brianna Wiest - This is Kayla's pick for the book that was most influential/life-changing. The first 64 essays were fantastic and my book is marked (with pencil) on so many pages. Arrows and underlines and asterisks and x marks noting statements that really resonated with me. As the book went on I wasn't as excited as I had been when I first started. Still, I am looking forward to popping over to Kay's so we can break out our copies and talk about what really stood out to us. 

* Eleanor Roosevelt - A Life of Discovery ¹ by Russell Freedman - I knew so very little about the former First Lady and this book was a nice introduction. She was definitely a woman ahead of her time and I can see now more clearly why she is so admired by so many people.

The Second Son by Charles Sailor - The first three quarters of the book was riveting and I so looked forward to popping outside for a smoke break and to get in a few chapters. The last quarter had some stressful moments, one of which I skipped entirely once I knew what was gonna happen, and the end kind of was blah. I wanted a happily ever after rather than reality. But it was extremely well written and I've been recommending it a lot. I even bought a second hand copy to loan out, that way my copy doesn't get banged up any more than it already is. Aunt Berne gave me her copy back in December. She told me that when she first finished reading it, she loaned it to my father who blew through it in no time. In my make-believe life, I'd have had a Dad who took a real interest in me as a person and I imagine that in this perfect alternate timeline, he'd still be alive and would ask me to go out for lunch so we could chat about the book. Alas, it is never to be. It's a brilliant concept for a novel - New York City in the late 70s/early 80s where an iron worker, a literal every day Joe, falls twenty-four stories to the pavement below and survives. Through a series of events it - spoiler alert - turns out that Joseph Turner is the Second Son of God. The best part of the book for me was the time where I, an agnostic at best, got so wrapped up in the story that for a brief moment I thought it was actually happening. Kind of like when you have a vivid dream, wake up, and still feel like what you dreamt was real. When the world found out who Joesph really was, I felt a sort of calm peace, as if the truth was revealed and there really is a God and a Heaven where everyone is waiting. But then I came back to reality. I found myself clinging to that sensation of a real life Joseph Turner who urged people to help themselves and those around them and to bring power to the people through kindness and hard work. I can't wait for Wayne to read it so we can talk it over!

* Quitters, Inc. ¹ by Stephen King - This was a very short story (the audiobook was only about 45 minutes, and I remembered it a bit from the vignette in Cat's Eye that I saw when I was in grade school.) It was really good and Eric Roberts was a great narrator.

The Mist ¹ by Stephen King - I'd seen the film version years ago when it came out, and then again last October. I'm working my way through as many King stories as possible before my death (he has so many!! I know I won't get to them all in time.) and this was a shorter one so I queued it up after Quitters, Inc. and it was really good. The film was pretty faithful, except for the end. (I like both endings, to be honest.) The only thing I didn't like was when David Drayton, the lead, was trying to get it on with one of the women trapped in the market with him. Lame!


¹ - audiobook
² - abridged version
* - liked
♥ - loved
Any unmarked titles were, in my opinion, so-so.

Monday, September 29, 2025

Cartoonie Us!

Lauryn took a selfie of her, me, and Melanie from our trip to Collingswood's Kiss and Tale a few months back and Google AI'd it to make us into sketchy cartoons. I look like Kate McKinnon in the black and white one and wish it were true! And Lauryn has a bit of Nicola Coughlan.




Then she did it all over again over this past weekend and I love the one where I have tattoos, cleavage, and brown hair - hilarious! 






Sunday, September 28, 2025

To Oz and Back Again

Google did it again! This time for The Wizard of Oz. Go and Google the film's title, when the results page appears, click the ruby slippers. On the next page, do the same with the tornado. Make sure you have the sound on!!


Saturday, September 27, 2025

Roller Derby Name


Me: Irma Bruise
Amy: Betty Bruise
Bella: Connie Blood Blister
Kay: Barbara Fasciitis / Barb Itis
Mum: Rosie Sore
Lauryn: Pauline Broken
Melanie: Frances Cut
Melissa: Virginia Cyst
Natalia: Angela Ache
Lucy: Barbara Bruise

(oddly this post came from oaksamusementpark's account)

Friday, September 26, 2025

Yes! Yes! Yes!

Live, Laugh, Love - GARBAGE!! When I saw this replacement for that sentiment I felt that it perfectly described my current feeling on the world right now. Actually, I would change it to one of my Dad's weird catchphrases "Kill, Slash, Maim." I need to needlepoint that!

(photo kidnapped from subversivecrossstitch IG page)

Thursday, September 25, 2025

Who's the first person...

I saw this page from a writing prompt book (Cut It Off by Level Up & Bloom): 

Imagine being in a room with everyone you've ever met, from childhood to the present day. Who's the first person you're going to look for?
(photo kidnapped from dlcwellness IG page)

Instantly I wanted to say Aunt June, but sadly, we never had the chance to meet. Then I thought of my cousin Donna, but she was never one to gush and show excitement when I walked in the door. So of everyone I've met and lost or lost touch with, I'm going with Bryan Berryman. He and I met and worked together in 2005-2007 and I never loved anyone quite like I did Bryan. It was wholly unconditional and we had such a great connection and genuine love for one another. He was there for me through some dark and difficult times and I was able to be there for him as well. He's off Instagram and has been for a while, but last I heard he and his lady had a son and live in Asheville, where he's part of the fire department. I know if I were to see him again we would get in a nice, long hug and I'd pepper him with dozens of questions about how he met his girl and is he happy, how's Asa, how are you? And I would tell him how much our brief time together meant to me and that I love him and miss seeing him.


(photos from Bryan's last day 3 January 2007 - ps: I gave him that necktie)

Wednesday, September 24, 2025

Perimenopause-a-palooza!!

Oh man, I so hope this becomes a reality!! Clearly it would need to be an outdoor festival in late Fall and all through Winter because menopausal peeps can't take the heat. A woman over on Instagram, whose handle is TheGarbageMom, came up with this GENIUS idea and it's getting some traction. Here's hoping it comes to fruition because to see Rage Against the Machine, one of my top three favourite bands of all time (tied with The Smiths and The Velvet Underground), would be an absolute dream come true. Especially since they are the only male led band on the entire roster. It helps that they are four bad-ass feminists. That's why they get the invite. Please, Universe, let this happen!!!





Tuesday, September 23, 2025

Excited for Fall!

Here's a little snippet of me and Bishop texting yesterday. And yes, I know no one cares about this but it's really just so that in four years (if the apocalypse hasn't arrived before then) I can stumble upon this and laugh.


Monday, September 22, 2025

My Dearest Memories



• Xavier: visits to the cafĂ© - Antwerp - "Jaws" in SF
• Ashlee: discovering Dublin - the hair "drying" experience
• Kayla: Wing’s Castle - helping w/her self esteem
• Bella: finding Dean Village - Bondi Rescue at SLP
• Nicole: our adventure across Italy 2013
• Mum: HS ring - her fart outside Office Max
• Dad: Quote Day & Michael Laughing, Jr.
• Bailey: "[me:] I like your boots."  [Bailey:]"My boobs?" - Cab. Patch Kids
• Sean: Saving my letters from his deployment
• Wayne: Bonding en route to Cape Hatteras
• Anne: "Bears like honey..."
• Natalia: Our day in Dublin and her saying we should travel again
• Marina: Laughing at "The Onion" - hug in Armenia
• AB: Peddler's "I'm in the dark here!" & walk to corner
• Amy: meeting Dan Aykroyd - the "floaters" laugh
• Joy: boo boo boo boo - swings
• Karen: in her kitchen looking at old photos
• Rick: his excited response to Joy's "RICK!!"

• Bishop: telling him the M.H. joke - driving him to the train
• Aunt Gina: her pig snort - Gitano neon puch w/makeup
• Joe: "Gluegen" and the sauerkraut
• Bryan: hug in the cooler at WFM
• Nana Irma: John Wayne's son: "Shane? Sean? Satan?"
• Terri: laughing to Dennis Miller in VA
• Nancy & Uncle Phil: their fabulous stories
• Uncle Alan: chewing our faces
• Mary - Jen - Bishop: their laughs
• My brothers buying me an iPod {which I still have!}
• Touring the Winchester House & Fallingwater
• FaceTiming w/pregnant Marina in Col. for hours
• Jackson meeting Lucy: "I yuv her."
• Ana: putting her head on my shldr the moment we met

31 January 2021

Sunday, September 21, 2025

Plush

There's nothing like a sofa that invites you over to snuggle up merely by being the essence of cozy comfort.
(photo kidnapped from overatno18 on Instagram)

Saturday, September 20, 2025

I See the Beauty...


Such as...
• watching squirrels bop around the lawn or crossing the roads, pausing, then racing like a shot to the safety of the other side
• getting hugs from Janine and Morgan at Goldie and being declared their favourite customer (Morgan once told me that she knew I'd stopped by the other day because Janine wrote in the staff notes that "Lisa SuperStar was in!")
• when the leaves change colour in Autumn
• flipping through the pages of a House & Garden magazine and admiring the interior decor of other people's homes
• spotting a brightly coloured bird when out and about
• when a little kid or baby giggles 
• strangers being kind to one another 
• the strong aroma of fresh, fresh strawberries or a basil plant and suckin' in a great big whiff
• when someone is really sad or hurt and you can help turn it around by being there, giving hugs, or even just offering a shoulder or a furrowed brow of empathy
• being truly moved by a great piece of art - a Howard Pyle painting that follows you the rest of your life, an adventure novel like High Road to China that transports you into the story and you find yourself flying through the clouds with the characters, hearing lyrics in a Taylor Swift song that feel as though she wrote them from your very own thoughts and experiences: "And you call me up again, just to break me like a promise, so casually cruel in the name of being honest. I'm a crumpled up piece of paper lying here..." or driving past a home so beautiful that you have to slow down and soak it all in so as to seal it in your memory for future daydreams.

Friday, September 19, 2025

Preach!

The last one had me howling.

Thursday, September 18, 2025

Personal Reminder

(kidnapped from 30somethingaf on Instagram)

Wednesday, September 17, 2025

Seen In Swarthmore

While stopped at a traffic light on Chester Road, I spotted this charming little gate and had just enough time to roll down Finn's passenger window and snap a photo. 

Tuesday, September 16, 2025

Samba Montclair

Before seeing UB40 on September 10th, Amy and I had enough time to grab a bite. She was having a super hectic week at work so I mentioned seeing a Brazilian joint called Samba that seemed promising. They even had a good selection of vegan grub. They were pricey as hell so I decided to go with a fifteen dollar app as my meal. Amy, always one to spoil me, even though I do feel guilty about it, said that she would pick up the tab, so I went for it. Oh my gosh, the portions!! I had a third of it, at best, at the restaurant and then brought the rest home and had it for two more meals. That's a lotta bang for yer buck! We even got dessert and I paid for it the rest of the night - I was stuffed to maximum capacity. But it was worth it since everything was so yummy. Oh and our waiter was the nicest of the nice.


Amy's Strogonoff Frango - Little strips of organic chicken, fresh cream, mushrooms, and tomatoes topped with matchstick potatoes.

Prato Vegano - sautéed okra, sautéed collard greens, fried plantains, fried yuca, and sautéed seasonal vegetables.

Bathroom artwork




Amy's flan!

My vegan and gluten-free marble cheesecake with pecans, dates and seasonal fruits. Scrumptious!