Saturday, November 30, 2024

November 2024 Books

♥ The Clue in the Jewel Box by Carolyn Keene - I wrote the following back in July of 2021 when i first read this Nancy Drew Mystery and it still stands: "This book was so good I didn't want it to end." The one good thing about having a dodgy memory is that when I re-read an old book I tend to completely forget the story and it's like reading it for the very first time. 

How Spider Saved Thanksgiving by Robert Kraus - I picked this book up at the library and had high hopes since I loved when Spider saved Christmas and Halloween. This one was not memorable except that it was very much the way Thanksgiving was taught to me at school. "Indians" and really wonderful white people who are generous and sincere. Talk about dated. 

* The Leaf Thief by Alice Hemming and Nicola Slater - Here was another one from the library and it was really cute and the illustrations were fun and fresh with an original storyline. 

♥ Did I Ever Tell You This? ¹ by Sam Neill - I, of course, have known about Sam Neill since I was in high school with films like A Cry in the Dark, Jurassic Park, and The Piano, and have continued to see him ever since. He never turns in a bad performance. Subtle and solid. I'm a sucker for a good memoir by someone famous and this was one of the best. Chock full of laughs and fantastic stories. It was perfect for the long drive up and back to Amy's farm. Mr. Neill kept me riveted, and therefore awake, on the late night two-plus hour ride home. 

♥ You Never Know ¹ by Tom Selleck - An exceptional book. Selleck comes across as a man of a bygone era, like the men of the Second World War. Men with honour, courage, character, iron will, integrity, determination, and dignity. A serious man, but one not without humour and kindness. It was an absolute, no-bullshit, pleasure to listen to him read his memoir and get to know him better. The best was when he confirmed what I had hoped all my life - that Jack Weston was a wonderful human being. Takeaways: oh my gosh, he way overused the phrase "above my pay grade" and every time he said it I cracked up laughing. And the story about going with Larry Manetti to visit with Kyle in the hospital and Larry giving him the ring they all wore, had me crying my eyes out. Such a great, great book, and more than worth the wait.



¹ - audiobook
² - abridged version
* - liked
♥ - loved
Any unmarked titles were, in my opinion, so-so.

Friday, November 29, 2024

November 2024 Donations

About-Face

About-Face has been honored to serve girls for more than 20 years, helping them turn awareness into action.

Our story is unusual — and truly grassroots. About-Face started with a poster that protested advertising that portrayed unhealthy and destructive images of women, in magazines, TV, movies, and billboards.

Social media has completely changed the media landscape — and About-Face evolved with it. We expanded our mission — and our approach — beyond body image to make sure girls can navigate our cultural landscape and develop the mental health and self-worth they need to reach their full potential.

Please join me in the Low Budget Philanthropy movement and help out your community and beyond in the simplest way - donating any amount to whatever charity or organisation that you care about!

Thursday, November 28, 2024

Grateful For

Kayla
Isabella
Lucy
Rob
Amy
Jackson
Marina
Jaeden
Emily
Wayne
Lauryn
Melanie
Family
my little home
Roark
Winter weather
democracy
great audiobooks
my personal library
the stories I've written
Dr. Davis and co.
Dr. Kurtz and co.
Finch and Squiggles
homemade cookies
Christmastime
music
film
art
getting mail
long drives with a fab mix
the ability to change
The Colonial Theatre 
learning new things
reading under a streetlamp and smoking
having something to look forward to
travel
re-reading old letters
succeeding
lunch with a pal
classic TV
escaping into a new novel
support from loved ones
planning an adventure
hugs from Kenny
when someone hears me
laughter
all of Kay's help 
a job that pays my bills and then some
this blog

Wednesday, November 27, 2024

Amberella Art

I snapped these at the Ikea in Conshohocken with Kayla and was reminded of the one by the same artist that was near Goldie’s.




Tuesday, November 26, 2024

Thinking of George

When I saw this street art in Fishtown on May 20th of 2023 I gasped and then felt my eyes begin to burn with pending tears. I have the luxury of sometimes, often times, pushing a lot of the horror of this world out of my mind. I choose to forget or ignore it so that I can get through the day. Seeing this powerful piece of artwork forces me to remember that evil is all around us at all times. That there are so many genuinely fucked up things that happen to people by people and most of us are helpless to stop it. While scrolling through my camera roll on my phone and coming across this photo reminded me that I need to be better. Do more. Feel more. Try to bring about positivity in my day to day actions. Release a lot of the anger and hate that do not serve me. Look for the good. Be a reflection of it in my words and especially in my thoughts. Be kinder to myself, my family, my friends, my community, and to the world as a whole. Do not give in to the quick rage. Don't be that mean girl. Behave in a manner that lessens the number of evil and cruel people and increases the number that radiate joy, love, hope, and compassion. Because that is who I really want to be. As Morrissey sang, it takes strength to be gentle and kind. I want to leave behind my weaknesses and metamorphose into a strong, decent person. 

Monday, November 25, 2024

Me + Kay + Ikea

For the third Sunday in a row Kayla and I went to Ikea. I'm trying to get my place in order and Kay has been a tremendous help. Plus we got to have tons of time together, which is always just this side of spectacular. This time we went to the one out in Conshohocken, since it's right near MOM's Naked Lunch. (Yay for sushi bowls and Virgil's Root Beer!) This Ikea was super fun and Kay even posed for silly photos, because, well, she's the best. Oh, and Kay pointed out what is absolutely my dream bathroom. I must have it!!








Sunday, November 24, 2024

Marina in Cuba

Earlier this month Marina and her mother went to Havana for a long weekend. They had a wonderful time and is another Latin American country to check off of Marina's list. Here are two of the many photos I stole from her Android that I must share.


Saturday, November 23, 2024

Poolside Playlist

Over the Summer, I created a very long mega-mix of fun and peppy pop tunes for hanging out with Lucy (and Bailey) while she swam. 

Freya Ridings - Wither on the Vine
Bob Marley & the Wailers - Could You Be Loved
Bee Gees - Night Fever
Lady Gaga - Stupid Love
Cher - Half-Breed
Goodnight Radio - Sophia So Far
The Murlocs - Rolling On
Save Ferris - The World Is New
Edwyn Collins - A Girl Like You
Ani DiFranco - Both Hands
Troye Sivan - COOL
Johnny Mathis - Up, Up and Away
The Rocket Summer - So Much Love
Bruno Mars - Grenade
David Bowie - Let's Dance
The Beatles - Can't Buy Me Love
Baltimora - Tarzan Boy
The Dandy Warhols - We Used To Be Friends
The Fixx - One Thing Leads to Another
Robbie Williams - Lovelight
Taylor Swift - Cruel Summer
Cheryl Lynn - Got to Be Real
Cornelus Bros. & Sister Rose - Too Late to Turn Back Now
Bronski Beat - Smalltown Boy
Phoenix - Trying to Be Cool
a-ha - Take On Me
Taylor Swift - Bad Blood
Jimmy Eat World - If You Don't, Don't
The Sundays - Here's Where the Story Ends
Olly Murs - Wrapped Up
The June Spirit - Subject to Change
Blues Traveler - Run-Around
George Michael - Flawless
Prince - Raspberry Beret
The Cardigans - Lovefool
Sing Street - Drive It Like You Stole It

- July 2024

Friday, November 22, 2024

A Moment with Marina in Jean-Michel

One day in the late Summer (possibly early September) of 2005 I was driving around in Jean-Michel, the Mazda 626 I got after Morrison was stolen in Port Richmond, and was picking Marina up at her job as a nanny. Loving that I finally had a way to record movies on my camera, on this day I decided to start recording as Marina dashed down the driveway and hopped in. I love that I captured our two common catchphrases and the music I was listening to at the time, but what I love the most is that it is Marina and me and we are young and together. Before middle age sets in, children come along, and we no longer have the luxury to see one another on an, at least, weekly basis. Coming across silly mini movies like this are like walking along the sandy shores of a dull, local beach on a dreary evening and stepping on a large jewel that the ocean churned up and deposited in your path, just for you. 



Thursday, November 21, 2024

Early Vids by Star

Ha! Back in the early aughts, I had Dave's old Elph camera that also recorded video. I instantly became that annoying person filming everyone and asking them to perform for me, or to say they loved me, or even to say "something into the camera". Here are three examples that I am, frankly, so glad that I have. It's a little time capsule of friends frozen in time while also in action. I love it.

Pax Does Baba Wawa - 20 August 2006

Bryan - Sept 2005

Cerpts! 5 September 2005

Wednesday, November 20, 2024

Gift Parcel from Across the Pond

Look at this lovely package that Helen sent me as a pick-me-up after the disastrous election results. Is this gal a peach or what?! She is beyond thoughtful. 











Monday, November 18, 2024

New (to me) Albums From Amy

Earlier this month I stopped to see Amy and she and hubby, Don, gifted me some albums they received in their last bulk online order. The bonus was two Barry Manilow albums from her parents' old collection. Score!!





Sunday, November 17, 2024

Fight the Patriarchy!

Came across these cute colouring pages I did in 2009. I think I bought it off About-Face, but I'm not 100% certain. I think if I re-do my place, I should frame some of them.



Saturday, November 16, 2024

Tattoos


Bella: three dog paw prints on right foot below toes
Fr. Michael: Byzantine Rite crucifix on back or bicep
Amy: four leaf clover (in colour) on hip (not bone)
Anne: Celtic knot on upper arm
Ash: flowers (colour) on her right side
Rob: American eagle on chest - very intense
Nicole: Autism ribbon behind left ear
Kat: sun on left hip
Lauryn: Jerry Garcia's hand on right wrist
Melanie: sun on nape of neck
Me: K on back - left shoulder blade by my heart

Friday, November 15, 2024

I Heart Mom's Best Cereals

I've always been a big fan of Cocoa Pebbles but discovering Mom's Best Cereals Crispy Cocoa Rice was like finding a cure for all my pains and worries. It's so good, especially with chocolate oat milk, and stays crunchy for way longer than the Pebs ever did. Wish I could have this every single morning of my life. It's 100% yum.

Thursday, November 14, 2024

The Turkeys Are Coming!

Ha! The turkey's name-tag reads Ted. Adorable. I snapped this last year on my way in to a local-ish Trader Joe's. Man, I wish I knew how to draw...Ted is super handsome!!

BONUS! I walked in to TJ's tonight and they have this year's turkey announcement up and it's just as cute as last year's!

Wednesday, November 13, 2024

Wuthering Heights

I wasn't crazy about this novel but I adore the painting. It was one of about eleven that I bought online from Steve Keene in September-ish 2009. 

Tuesday, November 12, 2024

Be Kind


I am so rarely kind to the person in the mirror. In fact, I rarely look. If I do, it's in pieces; to fix my hair, check my teeth, and make sure no boogies are in my nose. I make so many mistakes each day. Bump into furniture, bite my cheek, eat too much junk food, "forget" to exercise, stay up to late worrying about things getting worse, smoke too many cigarettes, even though I only have one or two a day, say the wrong thing, hurt someone's feelings when they take what I say wrong, and generally look like a dumbass. When I do these things I berate myself for being stupid and an idiot. Being kind to myself is a near impossibility because I really don't feel I deserve it. In an effort to try to change this, I'm gonna try to be more kind to that sad girl in the mirror.